Become A Bridge Means Become A Bridgebuilder
You become a bridge when you facilitate shift, when you enable others to get from one place to another.
There are many ways to serve as a bridge: You can remove obstacles, offer possibilities, create clarity, welcome people to the entrance to the bridge, and guide them step-by-step in the scary process of entering new territory.
If you serve as a bridge to next culture, if you are a bridge for people to upgrade their thoughtware so they can understand what next culture is and the importance of shifting to next culture, you will have lifelong job security because there is immense and immediate necessity for both individuals and organizations to shift out of the capitalistic patriarchal empire and into regenerative, initiation-centered archearchy. The necessity is dire.
However, being a bridge is not listed on modern culture's tax forms. Most people never heard of 'being a bridge' as a profession, let alone as an Archetypal Lineage. Right now, we suggest that serving as a bridge could be one of the most important jobs for humanity's future. And we suspect that it may be your destiny calling...
Learning how to serve efficiently and elegantly as a bridge to next culture includes learning a rich new set of skills and thoughtmaps not taught in modern culture schools. Where can you learn them? Who can give you coaching and support as you to try to implement being a transformational circle alchemist, a builder of next culture gameworlds, a facilitator of Box expansion and culture shift, able to deliver authentic adulthood and archetypal initiatory processes that jack people in to inner and outer resources which modern culture knows nothing about?
The StartOver.xyz gameworld presents you with a webwork of support for learning exactly these bridge building skills and tools. Each experiment you register at StartOver.xyz recognizes new matrix built into your energetic body for holding more consciousness.
The experiments below may at first seem counter-intuitive for becoming a bridge.
This is because a bridge at the conceptual limits of a culture lead out over the apparent void to someplace not conceivable in the current culture's thoughtware. Only by experimenting can you make the steps out into and possibly across that apparent nothingness.
4 Steps Across The Bridge To Archearchy
Building such a bridge - and, of course, being the first to walk out on it to prove that it exists - demands that you are able to create and apply nonlinear possibility with such clarity of declaration that even you believe it!
And not just for a moment, either, but over an extended period of time while unconscious Gremlins freak out trying everything they can to undermine and contradict you in desperate attempts to maintain their status quo while you are trying to step out... into what appears to be nothing...
The four steps across a bridge to next culture are:
With each experiment you actually do, regardless of if you 'fail' or 'succeed',
you build matrix,
you gain further experiential distinctions.
This means you cannot fail.
The only failure is to criticize yourself, to use your fear as a reason to not do the next experiment.
We say this again:
The only failure is to not do the next experiment.
Some of the experiments below bridge you into new life space. Some invite you to help bridge others.
In either case, when you do an experiment for the first time, be sure to log your Matrix Points at http://StartOver.xyz.
If you are trying to be successful, learn to facilitate a process.
If you are trying to be a good person, now try to be you.
If you are trying to be stable, be stable in a liquid state.
If you are trying to be fearless, start lowering your numbness bar.
If you are trying to be authentic, be authentic about your inauthenticity.
If you are trying to be peaceful, tell someone what you are angry about.
If you are trying to be humble, publicly express your concerns.
Make a 3 minute video explaining what you are truly concerned about.
If you are trying to have integrity, make a promise and keep it.
If you are trying to shine, appreciate the next person you meet.
If your joints ache, stop eating wheat, sugar, coca cola and coffee.
If you are trying to be loved, engage an initiatory process.
Trying to be loved is a mediocre offer to make to the universe. The universe is made out of love. Pretending as if there is not already enough love around you to power an entire village is like standing in a field of yellow daisies complaining that there aren't any roses.
If you wear shoes and socks all the time, go barefoot.
If you eat cereal, toast and eggs for breakfast, eat soup or vegetables and rice instead.
If you drive your car everywhere, give everyone you see a ride.
If something breaks, fix it.
If you meet a child, squat down to their eye level.
Do not touch a child. Let the child touch you if they want. This empowers them to choose. Even if you do not know a child you can make energetic and eye contact with them. If their parents are not optimal you can squat down, make eye contact, say nothing, and witness with kind neutrality what is happening in their circumstances. This witnessing can help immensely. If the child shares an emotion with you, simply repeat back what you heard them say with a completion loop. When they say, "Yes," you have successfully completed that level of the communication and they can go to the next more intimate level. Completion Loops such as this have the power to heal beyond all expectation.
If you are angry about something, use your anger to facilitate change.
What you are angry about is what you care about. The anger is not an accident. Your anger is for taking a stand that things change for the better. Your anger may only be 10% intense, but this is enough energy to bridge you plus some others to a new shore. Use your anger consciously. Say what you want. Make a clear boundary. Stay "Stop!" or "Go!" Shift your anger into a neutral force of nature and let it move you from your center to take clear and immediate action. Negotiate a new agreement. Rearrange things. Help someone succeed in their efforts.
If you are late or in a hurry, slow down and feel.
If you are late or in a hurry there is something pushing you off center. You are chasing time, chasing the clock. You are in time scarcity. Life is passing you by and you are being left out of something. Find out what it is that you are afraid of being left out of. Let your worry turn into full blown fear. Let the fear get bigger. Tell someone about your fear only so that another consciousness hears about your fear. Do not try to make it go away. Simply acknowledge it experientially, that it is there for real. It is there for a reason. Make the reason for your fear conscious. "I feel afraid of being punished." "I feel afraid of being left out." "I feel being labeled as having no integrity." "I feel scared of being incompetent." "I feel afraid of not getting enough accomplished." Then when you meet with people, put your fears on the table. As the others if they think your fears are still relevant, or if they are leftover from a previous set of circumstances. Decide if you want to use the information given to you by your fears or not. Thank your fears for communicating with you.
If you see a potential that is not actualized in someone, arrange to listen to them about that.
This is called creating a vacuum. Too often when a potential is obvious but not activated, with colleagues, with children, with your partner, the frustration comes out as pressure, as an accusation. Pressure questions start with, "Why not...?" "Why don't you...?" "How come...?" "What if...?" and then the person has to defend themselves against your attack. Their survival reactions get triggered. You see their defense strategy and they stay stuck where they are. Nothing changes. Instead make a statement about an authentic longing in you to hear from them, to understand. Express your true curiosity with no hidden agenda to manipulate. "Could you please explain to me how it is for you?" "What is alive in you now?" "What is happening in your world?" Then listen with gratitude and expand your own potential to imagine the life of another person. Use your focused vacuum of attention as a bridge for them to deliver their experiences to you.
If your expectation is not fulfilled, admit your failure (that you were holding an expectation).
If you feel sadness, let someone close to you.
If you have a vision for what is possible, the people wait for you to speak.
If you cannot do something you want to do, show someone else how to do it.
If you are attracted to someone, expand your heart.
If you see a job that needs doing, either do it, or tell someone you will not do it and why not.
If you see a way through, go through, and then say how you did it.
If you are tired, sleep.
If you are are afraid to call someone, tell them why you are afraid to call them.
If you don't know how to do something, commit to doing it no matter what.
If you want to feel safe, clean out your attic.
If you accidentally hurt yourself, re-center yourself.
If you you are afraid someone is lying to you, get radically honest with them.
We're not just a service. We're your partners in crime.
What is the crime?
It is not ordinarily acceptable in modern culture to evolve.
Creating change is extraordinary.
Each time you become more aware of what is going on or what is possible you cause a ruckus.
When I'm walking down the street people always ask me, "What is the correct way to cause a ruckus?"
In case you try to cause a ruckus but it never works right, I am going to explain the correct way to cause a ruckus in a few simple steps.
(Adopted from House of Stupid)
Step 1: First of all you have to make yourself look out of the ordinary. Looking different can really add value to your ruckus.
Step 2: Demand satisfaction and don't stop until you get satisfaction, even if people ask, "Hey! What`s all the ruckus about?"
Step 3: Don't concern yourself about what direction you're going. Just freak out and frolic this way and that. Have no regard for anything other than your ruckusing.
Step 4: Do not fall over. When you fall over during a ruckus you lose your momentum and it just looks like you are throwing a temper tantrum.
Step 5: Don't stop until you are out of breath and are struggling for air. If you stop before that it's not a true ruckus. Have fun ruckusing.
If you change the people close to you are forced to change also, even if they did not sign up for changing.
You going across a bridge makes the people you know angry and afraid.
You see what they don't see. You have access to what they do not have access to.
They may assume you will go away from them. They may assume you won't like them anymore.
Before changing you can tell people around you that you are going to change and you would first like their permission to change.
This leads to interesting conversations and they feel less abandoned.